Why pottery?

Visual arts have never been my forte. I’ve dabbled in oil painting, thanks to Bob Ross, before everyone knew who he was. Before ‘the internet’! My dog sometimes bears a striking resemblance to him. I have fond memories of making homemade play dough with my grandmother. The smell of wet flour and salt always brings me back. And like, I assume, most people, I love poking clay packages in art stores, despite the signs asking people not to. C’est plus fort que moi! I think the first time I realized you could use clay as an art form was at the cottage. Sure, we all made clumps of clay, digging deeper in the sand to get more. We covered ourselves in clay for smooooth skin. But my first memory of clay art was my cousin, who also had a cottage on the same lake. I thought she was the coolest person. Not afraid of bugs, or slimy things, was so pretty with her beautiful long light brown hair. And she was from the big city! She made a horse head made out of clay, dried flat on a wooden board. We brought it home with us and I was so sad when it broke in pieces! She is, to this day, still the coolest. Still making horse art! Check out her art! So yes, back to clay…

The workshop I decided on was wheel thrown, and as most women in my age group, pottery became ‘mainstream’ when Ghost came out. Classic pottery scene. And sure enough, when I went to my pottery workshop last Friday, it was myself, and a group of four friends, slightly younger than me. Once we started working on our pieces, they asked if they could take pictures, and of course posed like the movie. I commented that it must be a very common thing to happen. The teacher pointed to the office, and on the top shelf they actually have a VHS tape of the movie… and then she admitted to never having seen it! Nope, that didn’t make me feel old… :p I was expecting it to be difficult, and it was, but I truly enjoyed it. I was pleasantly surprised with the result. The teacher did help to fix a few wonky bits, but all in all, these are my creations! I can’t wait to see the finished product in a few weeks once they have glazed and fired it! I will share them when I go pick them up. In the meantime, this is what they looked like on Friday.

Nevermind

In 1991, my parents and I went to Massena in New York to do some shopping. All I remember is going to the music store, and with my own money buying two cassette tapes. One was Red Hot Chili Peppers’ Blood Sugar Sex Magik, and the other was Nirvana’s Nevermind. I felt like such a rebel… they BOTH had the parent advisory mark on them. (Keep in mind that those labels were fairly new.) Driving back home, I gently removed the cellophane, opened the case of Nevermind, I can still hear the sound the plastic made the first time you crack a case open… I was hiding my purchases the best I could. That parental advisory label was SCREAMING… I didn’t have a Walkman, so all I could do was wait to get home to listen to my tapes. As soon as I did, I popped Nevermind in my boom box (given to me by a priest, ironically) and my music world changed. I don’t exactly remember how long until my dad found the tape. He noticed the title of the first song on Side B of NevermindTerritorial Pissings. My dad confiscated my tape and went and listened to it. I don’t know how much he paid attention to the lyrics, but his reaction? He couldn’t understand how someone like me, who enjoyed classical music, big band, and generally well tuned instruments, could like Nirvana. I didn’t know how to explain it then.

But I will give it a go now. See, I’m the youngest of three, raised in the 80s. My big brother was into (and still is) the big heavy metal bands (and KISS), followed by my sister who was into (and still is) Glam metal, a.k.a. hair metal. Being the annoying little sister, I wanted to be like them and enjoyed my siblings’ tastes. I remember singing Twisted Sister’s We’re Not Gonna Take It in my brother’s room with my friend. (If he knew we had been playing in his room, I would have been in trouble! If you are reading this now…. oopsies!) Anyhoo, grade 10 comes around. I was into hip-hop, ’cause the boys in grade 11 were into hip-hop, and I did enjoy dancing! Then the music world changed. Something completely different than the 80s over-produced music was being heard. It was raw. It was relatable. The video was gritty. It was ok not to wear expensive clothes and spend way too much on hairspray. Thrifting was in! Give me a plaid shirt and jeans! It was mine! Not my brother’s, not my sister’s, mine.

Books, books, and more books

I’ve been an avid reader all my life. When I was a kid, I spent a lot of time at the library. I would often stop on my way home from school and escape in books. I was a big fan of the Smurfs comics. When new issues would come in, the librarian would put them aside for me so I would be the first one to read them. The book would crack when I first opened it! I still love that feeling of cracking open a new book. And the smell of the ink! You might still catch me sniffing books. And I know I’m not the only one who does that! In my tween years, I moved onto small horror books. I wish I could remember what the series was called! Maybe they were translated R.L. Stine. Definitely that genre. (don’t get me started on how much I hate when people use the word “genre” in English, but pronounce it John-ruh.) Probably read most genres since then.

I would have to say that my go to these days are Fantasy novels. High Fantasy, grimdark, Urban Fantasy, Dark Fantasy, Humorous Fantasy. Basically anything but Romantasy. (Another word I hate).

I have read 14 books so far this year. Still have a ways to go to get to 50… Why do I feel like I might be making another list page…

My favourite novel of all time is The Count of Monte Cristo. What is your favourite?

Quiz Pro Quo

Four women laughing and writing on trivia night answer sheets at a bar with drinks and snacks on the table

I think what makes ‘Jeopardy!’ special is that, among all the quiz and game shows out there, ours tends to encourage learning. -Alex Trebek

I did it! I joined a meetups group, followed through, and went to a trivia night! And guess what! I had a great time!

Picture it, (Sicily… no wait! ha! ok, not that funny. Ahem…) Picture it. Busy local pub on a Friday evening. I park and sit in my car for a bit. I’m nervous. Hands are sweaty. This is soooo outside my comfort zone.

See, about a year ago, I screwed up my courage and decided to finally go to a coffee shop where people who knit and crochet meet once a week. I decided to go. Here I am, with my little bag that says “Bury me in yarn and books” and has a picture of… yarn and books… original, I know. Anyhoo, I ask where the group is seated, and they tell me the are on the patio outside. I walk out, head held high, even if my heart is beating so loud I can feel the thump-thumping in my throat, holding my bag in front of me so people can clearly see what it is. I walk up to the group of about 10 people. They all stop talking and slowly turn their heads and look at me.
Me: I’m here for the crochet an knitting group… I shyly lift up my bag and smile… One of them shakes their head. My stomach drops. Another points to a much smaller group of ladies who are ALL knitting or crocheting. That’s when I realise that no one in the group that I walked up to have any crafting implements in front of them. Just lots of drinks and desserts. I wanted to run back to my car and go home. But I didn’t. It ended up being ok. But nerve-racking.

So with that in the back of my mind, I walk up to the pub, go to the hostess. It’s so loud in there, I can barely hear her. I tell her I’m there to meet a group of ladies I don’t know. She said is it under so and so’s name. The name is vaguely familiar. I say yes, hoping it won’t be a repeat of the yarn group. It was the right group, and they made me feel so welcome from the get go. Trivia was fun! I have already signed up for the next trivia night. Join community group: CHECK!

I got these four. No one else in my team did. Can you?

My 50 before 50 list

Maybe it’s true that life begins at fifty. But everything else starts to wear out, fall out, or spread out.” — Phyllis Diller

I honestly don’t remember how it came about. How I thought of creating a list of things to do before I turned 50. I vaguely remember someone mentioning a year of ‘yes’ before she turned 50, that might be where I got it from. So now we are in April, and although I have registered for a few things, I’m not moving very quickly! Oh… the list? Here it is.

  • Have someone plan a mystery day for me
  • Take a pottery workshop
  • Do a professional “edgy” photo shoot
  • Create a midlife muse alter ego and go out as her
  • Attend a small gallery opening
  • Take dance classes
  • Try a sensory deprivation tank
  • Volunteer
  • Recreate a beloved teenage photo
  • Curate a playlist from youth to now
  • Perform at an open mic
  • Go dancing alone and stay until sweaty
  • Do a sunrise hike
  • Buy myself a ring
  • Complete an online course
  • Crochet my own sweater
  • Ride in a hot air balloon
  • Take a cooking class
  • Do a fine dining / wine pairing experience
  • Write a children’s book (Bird with a Short Wing)
  • Donate blood
  • Read 50 books
  • Learn to yodel
  • Have high tea at Château Laurier
  • Solo picnic by the St. Lawrence River
  • Go solo camping
  • Write short stories in coffee shops
  • Create a blog or vlog about this list
  • Purge yarn stash
  • Take a spontaneous unknown-destination road trip
  • Attend a silent book club
  • Join a community group
  • Play a one-off DND session at Level 1
  • Audition for a local theatre production
  • Establish a meditation practice
  • Scrapbook favourite memories
  • Host a themed dress-up party
  • Visit all major museums in Ottawa
  • Leave small yarn projects in random places
  • Take myself on a date day
  • Write a personal manifesto
  • Get myself flowers every month
  • Eat something I’ve never heard of before
  • Write and release a message in a bottle (Newfoundland)
  • Commission a small piece of art
  • Learn a simple song in another language
  • Create a signature cocktail for my alter ego
  • Write a piece and submit it somewhere
  • Do a tech-free weekend
  • Take a night photography city walk

So far, I have joined a few groups, actually going to an event this evening, more about that later.
Create blog, here we are!
I purged my yarn. Still have it in bags, but will be donating soon.
I need to get cracking!